Tuesday, January 25, 2011

Actual children's answer to the question "what is love?"

“When someone loves you, the way they say your name is different. You just know that your name is safe in their mouth.” - Billy, age 4

“Love is when a girl puts on perfume and a boy puts on shaving cologne and they go out and smell each other.” - Karl, age 5

“Love is when you go out to eat and give somebody most of your French fries without making them give you any of theirs.” - Chrissy, age 6 

“Love is what makes you smile when you’re tired.” - Terri, age 4

“Love is when my mommy makes coffee for my daddy and she takes a sip before giving it to him, to make sure the taste is OK.” - Danny, age 7

“Love is when you kiss all the time. Then when you get tired of kissing, you still want to be together and you talk more. My Mommy and Daddy are like that. They look gross when they kiss.” - Emily, age 8

“Love is what’s in the room with you at Christmas if you stop opening presents and listen.” - Bobby, age 7

“If you want to learn to love better, you should start with a friend who you hate,” - Nikka, age 6

“Love is when you tell a guy you like his shirt, then he wears it everyday.” - Noelle, age 7

“Love is like a little old woman and a little old man who are still friends even after they know each other so well.” - Tommy, age 6

“During my piano recital, I was on a stage and I was scared. I looked at all the people watching me and saw my daddy waving and smiling. He was the only one doing that. I wasn’t scared anymore.” - Cindy, age 8

“My mommy loves me more than anybody. You don’t see anyone else kissing me to sleep at night.” - Clare, age 6

“Love is when Mommy gives Daddy the best piece of chicken.” - Elaine, age 5

“Love is when Mommy sees Daddy smelly and sweaty and still says he is handsomer than Brad Pitt.” - Chris, age 7 

“Love is when your puppy licks your face even after you left him alone all day.” - Mary Ann, age 4

“I know my older sister loves me because she gives me all her old clothes and has to go out and buy new ones.” - Lauren, age 4

“When my grandmother got arthritis, she couldn’t bend over and paint her toenails anymore. So my grandfather does it for her all the time, even when his hands got arthritis too. That’s love.” - Rebecca, age 8

“When you love somebody, your eyelashes go up and down and little stars come out of you.” - Karen, age 7

“You really shouldn’t say ‘I love you’ unless you mean it. But if you mean it, you should say it a lot. People forget.” - Jessica, age 8 



Friday, January 21, 2011

The Holy Quran

Dear my fellow Muslims (and non-Muslims),


I'm sure you all ever recite the Holy Quran.. don't you?

The Holy Quran is a compilation of the verbal revelations (in Arabic) given to the Holy Prophet Muhammad (saw) over a period of twenty two years. The Holy Quran is the Holy Book or the Scriptures of the Muslims. It lays down to every branch of life-law and commandments, codes for social law and moral behavior, and contains a comprehensive religious philosophy.

Have you ever really look into the verse, the words used in it? Take a time and feel it. Subhanallah.

BEAUTIFUL. 

That's all I can say. I'm not good with words. I just can't find any other words to describe it. Look through into it and feel it yourself. =)

reciting of Al-fatihah by an American non-muslim. Even a non-muslim could feel the special, unique, beautiful words of this Holy Book..why can't we a Muslim did the same? =)

Wednesday, January 19, 2011

LIFE



“I believe that the very purpose of life is to be happy. 


From the very core of our being, we desire contentment. 


In my own limited experience I have found that the more we care for the happiness of others, the greater is our own sense of well-being. 


Cultivating a close, warmhearted feeling for others automatically puts the mind at ease. 


It helps remove whatever fears or insecurities we may have and gives us the strength to cope with any obstacles we encounter. 


It is the principal source of success in life. 


Since we are not solely material creatures, it is a mistake to place all our hopes for happiness on external development alone. 


The key is to develop inner peace.” - Dalai Lama


credit: http://iibrahim.tumblr.com

Saturday, January 15, 2011

lovely advice

Health:
1. Drink plenty of water.
2. Eat breakfast like a king, lunch like a prince and dinner like a beggar.
3. Eat more foods that grow on trees and plants and eat less food that is manufactured in plants.
4. Live with the 3 E’s - Energy, Enthusiasm and Empathy
5. Play more games.
6. Read more books than you did in 2009.
7. Sit in silence for at least 10 minutes each day.
8. Sleep for 7 hours.
9. Take a 10-30 minutes walk daily. And while you walk, smile.

Personality:
10. Don’t compare your life to others. You have no idea what their journey is all about.
11. Don’t have negative thoughts or things you cannot control. Instead invest your energy in the positive present moment.
12. Don’t over do. Keep your limits.
13. Don’t take yourself so seriously. No one else does.
14. Don’t waste your precious energy on gossip.
15. Dream more while you are awake.
16. Envy is a waste of time. You already have all you need.
17. Forget issues of the past. Don’t remind your partner with his/her mistakes of the past. That will ruin your present happiness.
18. Life is too short to waste time hating anyone. Don’t hate others.
19. Make peace with your past so it won’t spoil the present.
20. No one is in charge of your happiness except you.
21. Realize that life is a school and you are here to learn. Problems are simply part of the curriculum that appear and fade away like algebra class but the lessons you learn will last a lifetime.
22. Smile and laugh more.
23. You don’t have to win every argument. Agree to disagree.

Society:
24. Call your family often.
25. Each day give something good to others.
26. Forgive everyone for everything.
27. Spend time with people over the age of 70 & under the age of 6.
28. Try to make at least three people smile each day.
29. What other people think of you is none of your business.
30. Your job won’t take care of you when you are sick. Your friends will. Stay in touch.

Life:
31. Do the right thing!
32. Get rid of anything that isn’t useful, beautiful or joyful.
33. However good or bad a situation is, it will change.
34. No matter how you feel, get up, dress up and show up.
35. The best is yet to come.
36. Your Inner most is always happy. So, be happy.

Friday, January 14, 2011

cry?


Does crying means you're weak?..

Coz I somehow feel so.

I cried a lot this few days.

Wake up, wake up! 

Be strong dear self!


Saturday, January 8, 2011

some things fade away


Some things doesn't mean to last forever. 

People change. Once you're good friends..always contact each other chatting etc. The next silence days, you're strangers. 

Not all friendship will last forever.

If you found this funny, still, accept it! It's fact. Things like this happen.. a lot. 

Guess I'll have to get used to it. Should develop an immune system for this virus. 

People who used to stop in my life for a while,

Thanks for coming in

Glad we met.

You and I, we both are no longer the same person we used to be.

Little or bit, your presence change me.. towards a matured, better person.

I learn.

Thank you.



Wednesday, January 5, 2011

family..families.

Family..cousins..relatives.. my BIG families.


<3 <3 <3

Even if the world turn back on me, even if people leave me..I'll stay alive. Because I have these people to smile, laugh and cry with me. 

Sometimes I like to stay alone. Emo-ing with no reason (part of it are lies..of course there's reasons!). But being with people and seeing them smiling, laughing, having joy together.. tho you just stand beside, it won't take long till you'll be taken into the land they're in.

Being a part of it.. glad I can stay. 

My most precious gift. Thank you Allah.